This guy I know.

I mention this guy sometimes on here.

Probably not often enough.

Every time I read or hear a girl pour their heart out on their failed relationship,

a relationship that has left them with toxicity,

I think of how lucky I am.

Lucky I have everything that is important to me in a relationship.

Trust.

Honesty.

Admiration.

Respect.

Weirdness. ;)

So a big thank you to this guy for treating me how I deserve to be treated.

If you're reading this, I love you <3

But I mean I'm the best girlfriend in the world so it must be easy ;)

(KIDDING PEOPLE)











Disclaimer: No relationship is perfect. We disagree sometimes. I annoy him sometimes by pretending to  jump on his bed when I know he doesn't like it. He snores. I wear this Girl Scouts Camp shirt with a huge stain on the back from 7th grade around the house. He wears this bright gold obnoxious "Lakers" shirt. But at the end of the day, what we have is somewhat mature ;) and we genuinely like each other. 

And if anyone cares for my dating advice: DON'T SETTLE. I don't care if you're lonely. I don't care how old you are. HOLD OUT for what you want. Know what you want.You deserve the best.

20 comments:

  1. don't settle is the best advice any woman can give to a friend 100%.
    and i am obnoxious too like with jumping on the bed. i think that makes for a healthy relationship:)

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  2. Amen to that post :) I love that you added weirdness in there cuz M and I have our own weirdness too!

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  3. :) You guys are cute. Everyone needs a little weirdness in their relationships. It means you're ok with being who you are.

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  4. :) You guys are cute. Everyone needs a little weirdness in their relationships. It means you're ok with being who you are.

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  5. Ahh, I love this post :-) I love hearing about annoying things other couples do to each other, ha!

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  6. Wait, so you're hoping he reads this and is touched enough to go with you to see The Lucky One, right? ;) Hahaha I'm on to you... Just kidding, thumbs up to Jeff!

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  7. So cool, Hollie! You deserve the best :) sounds like you've got your head on straight... love that last paragraph, EXACTLY how I feel!! I wish more girls agreed!

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  8. You two are so cute! Great post about being real, and enjoying it! It's great to hear that you have something that really makes you happy :)

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  9. such a great post! and the picture of you too in the German outfits...amazing!

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  10. You two are so cute! Haha I love that you have a stained girl scout shirt from back in the day and still wear it! I have these giant seagull sweats that my husband hates haha

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  11. He sounds pretty amazing. If you really wanna know if he loves you, switch the German outfits and see if he's good sport.

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  12. Good advice and good looking couple. :) I love that you like each other and that you (by the looks of it) do actual fun cool stuff together.

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  13. I love this, it is so cute. I feel the same way with my guy. I feel so lucky to have things so great. And we have our weirdness too. And I wear crappy t-shirts and he wears bright orange mesh shorts. :)

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  14. You two are adorable together!

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  15. sweet post! We also went as that for halloween one year! My mom even made Adam wienerschnitzel from pantyhose to wear around his neck. It was hilarious.

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  16. Awww...cuteness!! Taking time out a few minutes a day to remind your significant other how much they mean to you is so easy and amazing.

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  17. So cute! The German costume picture is fantastic! This was just altogether so cute:)

    xoKylee

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